Hey everyone, I’m looking for tips on how to encourage kids to take more initiative with household chores. What methods or routines have you found effective for making chores an engaging part of their daily routine? Any ideas on motivating them to be more proactive would be really appreciated.
I set up a daily schedule with clear tasks. My kids know what needs to be done and when. I let them handle it, and I only check in to keep things on track. It worked well with my two kids and keeps the routine simple and efficient.
I’ve discovered that giving them a bit of choice really makes a difference. I talk with my kids about which task they’d like to tackle for the day and let them make a decision. This approach helps them feel a sense of ownership, and seeing them take charge makes me proud. I keep my check-ins light and fun. Sometimes I mention small rewards to build excitement, like a little extra screen time or a fun family game after chores are done. I don’t stress perfection but focus on each small win. It’s a way for them to build their own track record of success, and it makes our routine more of a team effort 
I decided to make household tasks more like a fun challenge. My child has a race with me or a timer, and each chore becomes a mini race for a personal record. I shifted tasks weekly to keep things fresh, and we always talk about how we worked together afterward. It’s been interesting to see the excitement build as my child starts looking for the next chance to try and beat a previous time.
I try letting my child choose one of two simple chores in the morning. I ask, ‘Would you like to put the dishes away or fold the laundry today?’ Sometimes we even time how quickly things get done during a tidy-up race. Have any of you experimented with letting kids decide the order of tasks?