Any tips on how to create a structured routine for kids that actually sticks?

I’m looking for practical advice on setting up a daily schedule for kids that they can actually stick to. What strategies can help make the routine engaging and sustainable over time? Any insights or resource recommendations would be appreciated.

I learned early on that involving your kids in creating the schedule makes a world of difference. I used to set a routine for my kids without asking for input and often met resistance. Now, I sit down with them and discuss what works best for everyone. This approach makes them feel like they have control over their day and increases the chances of sticking to the plan. It doesn’t have to be a strict, minute-by-minute schedule. Instead, set a few key time blocks and let them decide how to use in-between moments. Being flexible when things don’t go as planned is important. Adjust as needed and keep communication open so everyone knows the daily goals. Over time, they start to see the benefits of a steady routine. Remember, it’s okay to tweak the schedule as your kids grow and their needs change :slightly_smiling_face:.

Build a routine that is simple and repetitive. Set a clear schedule that the kids can follow each day. Use a chart or a timer to keep tasks visible. Consistency is key so everyone knows what to expect, which helps make the routine stick over time.

I started off with a fixed routine for meals and bedtime then allowed my kids to choose what to fill the gaps with. I find it works well when the little ones help decide on a few activities for themselves. There is something reassuring about a predictable pattern while still leaving room for spontaneity. We give easy praise when they take initiative and small birthday-like rewards on special days to celebrate their achievements. In our experience, having constant yet flexible expectations makes the routine something they are eager to be part of rather than just a set of rules. Adjustments are natural and that ease of change keeps the routine sustainable over time :blush:. Give it a try and see what works best for your family.